Feedback Schmeedback
Assertion: Online auction site feedback systems do not (in general) reflect the way things work in the real world and are therefore flawed — and unfair.
Supporting (all too common) scenario …
You buy a misrepresented product from an online auction site. Specifically, the sales text claims the product is fully compatible with all XYZ’s.
The product arrives, is well made, of evident high quality and in good condition. But it immediately becomes clear that it, in fact, cannot possibly be used with your XYZ. Let’s say that it’s a large, circular object and your XYZ is a fine representation of the proverbial small, square hole. Clearly, the seller has made a mistake. (Or have they?)
You notify the seller of the problem by private email, politely, who responds by denying your (absolutely undeniably obvious and accurate) claim, saying that it’s your fault for, “not knowing how to use the product”. They offer no advice as to how to use it, however — presumably because by this point, they must know that it is indeed impossible. But who knows. Maybe they’re just a bit slow?
So, you try once more to convince them, supplying associated evidence, carefully explaining the (obvious) details as to why the circle won’t fit in the square hole, as it were.
Alas, once more, the seller just (sort of politely) blames you for not knowing how to use the product correctly. “I can assure you that this gadget does fit in an XYZ’s square hole. We’ve sold hundreds of them and never had a complaint before.” This time, they offer to be a nice seller by refunding your purchase money — conveniently forgetting that you would have to pay the shipping cost for return, not to mention all the hassle involved.
(You decide not to bother, because you’ve already paid $5 shipping for the $14 item and value your time and money too much to be stupid about it. Instead, you opt to resell the otherwise fine gadget on the same auction site, this time clearly stating its true nature.)
Having given up on the seller’s ability to be reasonable (or sufficiently intelligent to understand the difference between two shapes?) you try to warn others by posting negative feedback stating, “The seller made inaccurate claims as to the product’s compatibility. It is not compatible with XYZ as they claim. The seller refused to acknowledge this fact (twice) and instead blamed the buyer for ‘not knowing how to use’ the product correctly.”
Missing the point entirely — that they are essentially lying to all who stumble upon their listing for this product in the future — the seller responds by giving you negative feedback, “Buyer not happy with product. Offered a refund. Buyer refused. This buyer is trouble. Do not trade!”
So then, you got yourself burned by a seller and tried to warn others. For your troubles, you got burned again — indelibly. Your once perfect trading record with this auction site is no more, because you simply dared to speak out to warn others about this rogue seller. The auction site’s staff were no help. All they could offer was to mediate the disagreement via email. But neither the seller or the buyer are going to budge.
Conclusion? Online auction site feedback systems are clearly flawed. If the above scenario were to be played out in the real world, then you might now be required to walk around with a warning sign on your forehead saying, “Bad customer! BEWARE!” — and all at the sole discretion of the seller.
Your only other option would be to do what most intelligent auction site users seem to resolve to do, which is to let the, ‘big bad seller’ get away with wasting people’s time, money and effort through blatant misrepresentation of merchandise, all for the sake of maintaining a nice, pretty, 100% positive feedback. After all, every one knows that placing negative feedback against a seller will almost certainly result in reflected negative feedback, regardless of the facts and there’s nothing you can do about it.
Label me a martyr if you will, but I decided to stand on principal and wear the sign on my forehead.
I am now forever labelled, a “Bad Customer!” Shame on me! Long live truth! (And justice?)



